SocialSpark

Posted on: July 17, 2010 at 11:57 pm. 19 comments

This was a post about Social Spark, the paid blogging site. It was my first offer, but AFTER I submitted the blog they told me my site wasn’t accepted, so I figured I should just delete it. I’ll just edit it though, and post a new blog.

I really, really don’t like hypocrites. David is horrible for being a giant one, when it comes to certain things. When we’re hanging out, if he goes to Subway but I don’t order anything (because I’m trying to save money), if I try to have even one bite of it, he’ll hit my hand away and tell me to just buy my own food. If I’m the one who has food and he doesn’t though, I’m expected to share with him and it’s a big deal if I tell him no (which, I usually don’t do because I’m nice like that).

If I have a bad day, I’m expected to be 100% happy and fine, because whatever I’m not happy about isn’t that bad because he works ten hours a day and then drives in the sweltering heat to see me. If he has a bad day, he can take it out on me all he wants, which he does. Not in horrible ways, but by being cranky, complaining, and doing all the things he gets pissy at me for doing when I’m in a bad mood. Not to mention the fact that he tends to have more bad days than I do, or is at least cranky more than I am.

And if I make even one bitchy/pissy comment, oh my it’s like the end of the world. I’m supposed to be this perfect, happy, cater-to-your-every-need girlfriend, so I can’t make any bitchy comments because he hates bitchiness, and that makes me not what he thinks I am. Him on the other hand, can say whatever he wants, whether its pissy, bitchy or just plain old him being a dick

And I understand that’s he’s been going through a tough time the last few days, but don’t get mad at me when I ask how things are going. Okay, you are scared and worried and stressed out and maybe you don’t want to talk about it, so just tell me that when I ask; don’t flip out on me and tell me to stop making a big deal out of it. I know what you’re going through IS a big deal, whether you want to believe that or not. I’m just trying to help you, because I love you and care about you.. don’t take that out on me.

In other updates, I used my saturday to put up a new layout at Quotetastic, so check it out :)

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19 Comments on “SocialSpark”

July 17th | 4:41 pm

That’s good you didn’t have to give out any information, especially things like your address. I dislike giving them out even to legit sites :/

It does sound good. And yes, the logo is quite cute! :3
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Both sites are amazing. I go on them every single day.

I think I will tell her one day. :3 She’s on holiday at the moment so maybe at some point when she comes back.

Haha thanks. It was reduced from £5 to £2 (which is really cheap) so I nabbed it. I don’t always use it though.

I doubt it… AND with the trouser-round-the-butt thing, they always wear really weird underwear D:

Take care! xx


Liz


July 17th | 5:19 pm

I’m going to try it. :D
And true, that. :P

http://img412.imageshack.us/img412/4303/200th.png :]


July 17th | 5:31 pm

LOLOL a bomb in the post. x3 Heh.

You should :3

Yep. Just adds to their… idk… idiocy?

How are you?

Take care! xx


isi


July 17th | 5:33 pm

Wow it sounds amazing. I am so trying it. :D
Thank you sooo much. :D
Mine is just like that. I have to put my fan next to it everyday or it will burn me. Stupid laptop. I cannot take my laptop out of the house because the batter doesn’t last 5mins without its charger…nice right….NOT!

Yeah true. It’s not a mac but its free lol. A movie ticket is 9 bucks. We go as a family. Imagine how much that would be.

Country music is awesome. :D People think it’s just a person sitting on a rocking chair while playing a guitar but its more that.


Liz


July 17th | 5:47 pm

I will, when my blog is approved. ^-^ I think I’ll use my “Aside” blogs for that. Er … Sideblogs … ? Same thing. :P
And awhh. LOL. I saw the 299 comments and was like OOHHH!!! :P


Liz


July 17th | 5:54 pm

Mine is a widget/plugin. :]


July 17th | 5:59 pm

That’s terrible D: I’m sorry to hear that :(

Haha my dad was alright, most of it was bumming about on the computer. It’s now 11pm so I’d better go to bed, aha. Talk to you tomorrow :) But I am good, ja. Ich bin gut (though ich bin sehr schlect).

Take care! xx


July 17th | 6:00 pm

*day, damnit. Not dad. x3


isi


July 17th | 6:37 pm

i signed up. It says my site is under review. I’m going to the “I signed up for Social spark” opportunity. After its done, how do i confirm it? Does it do it itself?

Nope I have a toshiba laptop. I will not be getting this brand again. i hate it lol.
For me on thurdays tickets are $5 lol.


July 17th | 6:53 pm

:( I have to rewrite this comment. I accidentally closed out the page.Here I go again!

That sounds like a good opportunity. I really like that it doesn’t ask for much information. I hate giving out my personal info if I’m unsure about a website as well.

I just peaked at your last blog and saw the WordPress theme you made. It looks fantastic! I love it :D

My sister has her website up and running. She has been “commenting” on different blogs. She is still really little and has to learn a lot. You can’t expect much from a 10 year-old but I’m proud of her anyway :D
The only guy that can pull of wearing makeup is Johnny Depp and that is just because he is a fantastic actor :D


Pam


July 18th | 12:12 am

I don’t like getting up early either. I just figured it would be easier to stay up all night because I had to leave at 3am and I’m normally still up at that time anyway. When I got home I did just collapse in bed though. xD

It funny that you say that about overplayed songs. I tend to just put a music channel on while I’m returning comments so I don’t get distracted, and Alejandro had been playing like 20 times in the last 2 hours. :/

OMG, your boyfriend and mine sound like the same person, LOL. I hate hypocrites, but unfortunately am dating one.

I’m not allowed to take things out on it, but he is on me. I’m not allowed some of his food, but he is allowed mine. Lol, I agree with pretty much everything you said. Weird. Maybe it’s just all guys. ;)


July 18th | 12:21 am

Men are also walking contradictions, hence why I am single for the first time in a VERY long time and loving it. I didn’t realise I could be so happy on my own … Sometimes I really think relationships are not worth it, but it takes two to try to make it work, not one. You shouldn’t have to feel bad while being in one.

But on the flipside, if your bf is going through a really tough time and you are there for him, hopefully he’ll see that, and then when you need him just as much he’ll be there for you too :-)

As for smiling, argh, I just hate it. It’s not that I have a crappy smile, I just don’t feel like smiling because I know if I do I’ll get compliments which I don’t like.


July 18th | 1:11 am

You are an awesome girlfriend. Seriously. :love: I guess some guys are plain cranky when they have their ‘moods’ but I hope he knows his limits and when enough is enough. If he has a bad mood, well.. he can talk to you about it, not be cranky to you or whatever. ^-^ Just my opinion though.


July 18th | 3:32 am

Well, I guess you just have to be understanding enoug. Have you told him all of this. You should. So he’ll understand that taking it all out on you doesn’t solve anything. :)


July 18th | 5:55 am

Aw that’s sucky about the SocialSpark not accepting your site :|

Hypocrites annoy me. I admit I can be hypocrytical at times but I hate it. x3 I also dislike it when you tell someone they’re being a hypocrite and they’re like “of course not!” Have you tried telling David he’s a terrible hypocrite? :P
I hope he calms down soon after he knows his dad is gonna be alright. :) ‘Cause then he’ll stop taking it out on you *hugs*

Ahhh good thing he didn’t die then D:

LOL. Well yeah, most of my days are bumming about tbh. :P
Take care! xx


July 18th | 10:39 am

I’ll totally gonna try that website:D.

Wow, you’re an awesome girlfriend. You boy should open his eyes and see that he has with him someone who loved him forgive him understand him and all of those things. You should definitely talk with him about those things. Tell him what makes you mad:D


July 18th | 4:06 pm

Ew, that’s dumb that they denied you after the blog. I use bloggerwave (I’m not sure if it’s the same thing but they’re not too strict with their rules). Good luck!

I’m sorry about your boyfriend being a hypocrite. You seem really patient with him. Props to you for being so nice. I don’t know if I’d be able to handle that especially if it was consistent. Maybe you should try sitting him down and having a serious talk? I mean, something’s gotta change and you shouldn’t have to subject yourself to such hypocrisy, especially from someone who loves you. Hopefully, things get better from here though.

And your quotetastic layout is amazing! :)


July 18th | 10:44 pm

Ugh I hate hypocrites too!

When people are upset they sometimes take it out on others, and I’m not gonna lie, I might do that sometimes if I’m just really upset, but the true friends are those who will stick by you through bad and good times.

Does David know you are mad about how he treats you? If he doesnt you should consult him about it. :)


July 18th | 11:09 pm

Ahhh stupid ass SocialSpark. I think I tried with them once but I didn’t like their way of approving so I ditched it. Heh.

I used to do paid posts on Heartdrops but now my stupid pagerank went down so I don’t really care… I don’t like having paid posts on my personal blog anyway. :P
I also hate hypocrites. I hope David stops being so nasty to you though. He seems to make a big deal out of things. I know he’s going through a tough time. Perhaps you should keep away from him and give him some space at least to cool off for a bit. ^_^;

He should at least be able to control his emotions around you. His problems could be inflicting on his emotions though, but you’re his girlfriend, he should be more careful and accepting! :( *hugs*

Yeah, we HAVE to, and I couldn’t give a rat’s tush about politics, as many people do, so there would be a lot of dud votes! It’s really silly but it doesn’t bother me all that much.

Ahaha probably, if I had Facebook I’d do that. ;) I think I’ll find someone who is willing to. :P
You’re welcome! LOL noooo, I used to make cookies and muffins but I can’t remember now. Next time I go to James’s house we’re gonna make muffins and bread though, so excited. :)
I agree ahaha. I hate most radio stations that play mainstream stuff. There is an old music radio station here that I like but some of the songs just repeat and I wish they’d have different stuff. Oh well, at least we’ve got songs in iTunes and all that. :)
I’ve been told I’m skinny and I just accept it, sometimes people compliment me which is really nice though. ^_^;

I can imagine! I always paint and grow my nails naturally, to be honest I don’t even like fake nails and wouldn’t have them. For special celebrations I just paint them myself and all. xD ;


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